LIFE IS A RACE!
This is what we are taught since childhood. The moment we enter into this beautiful world, our parents go into another dream world. They start building their grand expectations from us.
"oh! my baby will be a doctor one day!.... Hers's my engineer champ!.. Aww! My child is playing teacher-teacher. I am sure you will become a well reputed professor one day! "
These things start at a very small scale and we children too enjoy the love of our parents so much. But, soon this kind of love turns to a nightmare for us. Most of the time we are served with taunts and scoldings if we fail at some point in our life.Every now and then we are made to realize that there is a huge competition around us and we have to toil hard to be the best.
In all this tension, pressure, what about our enjoyment, our happiness? It gets vanished like smoke in the air.
Don't get me wrong. I am not saying that you don't do anything in life and just live on your father's money. No. It is absolutely wrong. What my point is that, whatever you do in life , do it with pleasure. For this, all mummys and daddys have to understand their children so that they could be at ease and in return could make their parents satisfied.
Did you ever give a thought to it? Once we enter in school life, our schedule gets completely changed according to our studies, exams and so on. We cannot go and meet our relatives whenever we want. For that, we have to wait for vacations. We cannot hangout with our friends just like that. We have to look after about our studies at the same time. We could not go out and spend a pleasant time with family because we were busy doing homework and were scared of the punishment that we may get by neglecting it. Have you ever realized that during all this we were nothing but just an alive working machine!
Accepted that we will definitely get success because of our hard work and will have our own identity.
But, we will EXIST with that identity, we will not LIVE with that. We don't realize that our soul is not cheerful and perhaps it is dead! So, what's the use of being successful like this?
Sometimes, in this pressure, tension, competition one becomes so depressed that he ends up giving his life, and if doesn't do it physically, he does it emotionally and just exists as a live-born statue. We fail to understand that the more we get tensed, the more we destroy ourselves.
We should try to create a positive approach towards life. I want everyone to be happy and live from within so that he could produce better outcomes. Do everything that you want, but always do it with a smile on your face. Don't let yourself to be a part of that huge crowd out there. Prove that you are different from others and LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE.
I do accept that life is a race, but it is not a marathon race where you take ample stress to win it. Rather it is a delightful race where there's a spoon with a marble in your mouth and there is always a risk of falling of that marble. But, when it falls, you laugh, pick it up again with your tremendous effort and nail it hard to win the race. So, from now we all have to STOP EXISTING AND START LIVING.
Be successful, be happy, and above all BE POSITIVE.
This is what we are taught since childhood. The moment we enter into this beautiful world, our parents go into another dream world. They start building their grand expectations from us.
"oh! my baby will be a doctor one day!.... Hers's my engineer champ!.. Aww! My child is playing teacher-teacher. I am sure you will become a well reputed professor one day! "
These things start at a very small scale and we children too enjoy the love of our parents so much. But, soon this kind of love turns to a nightmare for us. Most of the time we are served with taunts and scoldings if we fail at some point in our life.Every now and then we are made to realize that there is a huge competition around us and we have to toil hard to be the best.
In all this tension, pressure, what about our enjoyment, our happiness? It gets vanished like smoke in the air.
Don't get me wrong. I am not saying that you don't do anything in life and just live on your father's money. No. It is absolutely wrong. What my point is that, whatever you do in life , do it with pleasure. For this, all mummys and daddys have to understand their children so that they could be at ease and in return could make their parents satisfied.
Did you ever give a thought to it? Once we enter in school life, our schedule gets completely changed according to our studies, exams and so on. We cannot go and meet our relatives whenever we want. For that, we have to wait for vacations. We cannot hangout with our friends just like that. We have to look after about our studies at the same time. We could not go out and spend a pleasant time with family because we were busy doing homework and were scared of the punishment that we may get by neglecting it. Have you ever realized that during all this we were nothing but just an alive working machine!
Accepted that we will definitely get success because of our hard work and will have our own identity.
But, we will EXIST with that identity, we will not LIVE with that. We don't realize that our soul is not cheerful and perhaps it is dead! So, what's the use of being successful like this?
Sometimes, in this pressure, tension, competition one becomes so depressed that he ends up giving his life, and if doesn't do it physically, he does it emotionally and just exists as a live-born statue. We fail to understand that the more we get tensed, the more we destroy ourselves.
We should try to create a positive approach towards life. I want everyone to be happy and live from within so that he could produce better outcomes. Do everything that you want, but always do it with a smile on your face. Don't let yourself to be a part of that huge crowd out there. Prove that you are different from others and LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE.
I do accept that life is a race, but it is not a marathon race where you take ample stress to win it. Rather it is a delightful race where there's a spoon with a marble in your mouth and there is always a risk of falling of that marble. But, when it falls, you laugh, pick it up again with your tremendous effort and nail it hard to win the race. So, from now we all have to STOP EXISTING AND START LIVING.
Be successful, be happy, and above all BE POSITIVE.
yeah pressure and tension often highjacks our life in this competitive and racy world...but we people don't even realize it and when we realize it, then we only come to discover that many of our best tym and part of life are over..and we regret whole life..so sad but its reality.
ReplyDeleteanyways you took a good initiative by writing this..keep it up.. :)
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ReplyDeleteThe system is a hoax.
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